You are not on this journey alone.
No matter what problems you are
facing, or what your personal or family issues are, we are here to help.
Our "Healing with Heart" sphere of treatment includes
not only marriage therapists, but also:
Victims of Sexual Abuse
Victims of Child Abuse
Child Custody Consultation
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Do you often feel down? Does it feel
hard just to get out of bed sometimes? Do you feel empty, tired,
fatigued or sad? You may be suffering from depression, a condition that
can be treated!
Let's find a way to eliminate depression, with depression counseling.
End your depression symptoms!
Contact us for a consultation, and
jump-start your life.
We spend about a third of our lives sleeping!
Sleep influences our psychological, physical and social well-being, and
often sleep disturbances are comprised of a broad range of problems.
Contact us for a consultation, and enjoy
your life again.
We know the challenges and demands that go hand-in-hand with
parenting these days.
Come in and we'll talk about active
communication, discipline vs. Punishment, and in particular, the issues
you are facing. Yes, all cases are different, and we'll explain our
"Healing with Heart" philosophy.
We provide alcoholism and substance abuse counseling services,
whether it is experimentation, regular use, misuse or addiction and
If you're in, or close to Orange County, why not
meet with a therapist here at Lindeman,
Clancy & Budin. You'll be glad that you did!
Of course we believe in saving marriages and restoring relationships
Find immediate help with a marriage therapists or other trained professional who can bring relief and
healing to your life. We are here for you, and ready to help you leap to
a much better future.
Fears & Phobias
You know that it's irrational to fear, or have a phobia about
something that poses little possibility of actual harm, but you can't
seem to shake it!
You are one of many people experiencing
phobic and other symptoms, and the good news is that this is treatable.
Are you dissatisfied with your present job, or looking to make a
career change? Perhaps you've never had a job before, or need assistance
positioning yourself for that job interview or upcoming promotion?
We can provide you with the tools and strategies you'll need to obtain
your goals, whether in your current job, in a new job, in a new career,
or even in a new business venture.
We see individuals and couples about issues involving love and
relationships, and offer various psychological approaches to sex
therapy, sex counseling, and couples therapy.
Contact us for more information about our
stress-free approach to sex and relationship issues in individuals and
Victims of Sexual Abuse
Talking about the assault and developing a network of support can be
a very important part of the healing process. For some people, talking
with friends and family is most helpful, and many prefer speaking with a
Some people think that asking for help is a sign of weakness, but
nothing can be further from the truth. Talking about what happened, and
developing a support network is key.
Understand that you are not alone, and remember the assault was not your
fault, and that recovery takes time.
If you'd like to simplify and clarify the means by which you will
achieve your financial goals, it's wise to discuss this with a
It's important to establish a spending plan, and to make a list of your
fixed and flexible expenses before we discuss how to address them.
Together we'll make a family or small-business budget, to become more
fully aware of all your expenses, even if you are currently meeting all
your monthly obligations.
Ask us how we can help.
Victims of Child Abuse
Our child abuse counselors help children recover from child neglect
and other traumatic events. Treatment methods vary from play therapy, to
psychotherapy, trauma-based therapy, relaxation techniques and more.
Our aim is to help children cope with depression, panic-attacks, anxiety
and other issues that they face. Let's talk.
Although quite common these days, our marriage therapists have found
that step children have unique needs
and require expert understanding. Love and good intentions are great,
but step parenting families often face issues such as communication
problems and conflicts between couples.
Other challenges are child discipline, loyalty conflicts between the
children and their parents, maintaining relationships with previous
partners, what to do on the holidays, access to the children by a parent
who lives elsewhere, and more.
After consultations with our Orange
County child counseling staff, many, if not all, challenges can be
If you are experiencing communication
problems with your spouse or partner, or have other relationship issues,
it's a good idea to meet with a Marriage Counselor, with the aim of
improving their marriage or relationship.
When you meet with our marriage therapists, we'll be on the lookout for feelings or past experiences
that have been brought into your relationship. We'll look at patterns
that show up that impact your relationship. Communication is key, and
your first step to improve your relationship, is to contact us for a
Anxiety is one of the most common type problems we see here at Lindeman,
Clancy & Budin. Why not call an schedule an appointment!
Do you have vague worries and anxiety throughout your day? Are the
feelings you're having disturbing your sleep?
If you suffer from panic attacks you may feel fine most of the time, and
then have a terrible episode of anxiety at times. You may feel a
shortness of breath, (like you're being suffocated), a
faster-than-normal heartbeat, or chest pains.
Usually couples enter marriage with wonderful dreams and high hopes
of a fantastic life together.
That's great, but when some find that their first months together are
hard, and subsequent months and years even harder, often this results in
Pre-marriage counseling with
marriage therapists is
recommended for couples marrying for the second, third, or forth times,
if they are to avoid repeating former errors.
Pre-marriage counseling can help increase the odds of having a
The price of addiction can run very high. Alcoholism can ruin your
relationships, and it often interferes with your ability to work
While the 12-Step programs are effective for some people, others prefer
to find support & continue recovery with professional treatment.
Let's explore the deeper issues that led to
your alcoholism, we'll begin to heal your injured relationships and
Life can be stressful, and how well we handle stress can have an huge
impact on your life.
Unless stress is managed, both mental-health and physical issues can be
Inquire about the best techniques for
coping with anger or anxiety through stress-management counseling.
Divorce Mediation & Divorce Coaching
Divorce coaching and divorce mediation are specialized services that
specifically address a person's emotional issues caused by a divorce or
Once we've met, you'll learn how to more effectively communicate and
you'll better-understand, (and hopefully accept), the divorce issues.
Child Custody Consultation
Both parents still parenting the children is ideal, but in reality this
is often difficult to do.
Both of you will agree that you want what's best for the children, but
how do you react to the other parent talking badly about you, and trying
to win the children's' loyalty and love with toys and treats?
As a separated or divorced parent, you know that the children probably
feel the tension arising from everything involved in bring up a child.
Children who shuttle from one parent's home to the other, often get a
tummy-ache just thinking about leaving friends, having to deal with a
parent's new partner, and so on.
With the help of our marriage therapists, you'll learn how to reach "common ground" so the children still feel protected
and loved, although feelings and communication with your "ex" may not be
the best they have been.